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My wife had an affair at work. We are trying to work through our problems but I cannot get by the fact that she is still working with him.
On top of that, he is married and his spouse does not know about the affair. My question is do I tell her? I think I have a moral obligation to do so...she has had another affair early in our marriage and I did not tell that persons spouse. I wish I would have now.
Thoughts?
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I would, but I am vindictive and definately would like nothing more than for the dude involved to experience the pain he caused me.
Your wife had 2 A's?
And you are still with her?
Man, good luck with that.
The opposite of love isn't hate...it's indifference
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I have the same problem my husband had and affair on me with a co-worker and he still works with her on the same shift it really bothers me he has promised to find a new job but has been promising that since June of 2004 and keeps making new excuses why he can not change jobs at the moment I am getting really fed up with the whole situation the other problem is there seems to be a whole group of people that cheat on their spouses or significant others that work at that shop and he just can't quit hanging out with them
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You need to post ofer in GQ or JFO. Exposure is a powerful weapon in the battle against infidelity.
I would encourage you to read all the Q&A material on this site wrt recovering from infidelity. Step 1 is No Contact...
The guys and gals in JFO or GQ can offer much more help, it's definitely their area of expertise.
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