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I let him move back in, but now I'm doubting things. Is this normal? Or have I made a rash decision letting him move back in?
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Hi there!!<P>I don't know you're circumstances but in general - Have you both discussed and figured out what you need to do to make things different in the marriage and with each other?<P>Have you shown him this site or anything on it like the Policy of Joint Agreement? Have you both filled out the Emotional needs questionnaire, etc.<P>Some kind of new tools seem to need to be added to your relationship in order for some change that will bring H from needing these other distractions.<P>If something has been put in place along these lines you should do fine.<P>If not - then you should introduce these ideas into the marriage.<P>Hope this helps some.<P>Hugs,<P>Sheba
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Yes we have been reading this web site, and we did fill out the questionare. I just was having doubts today, hope they go away. The hardest part was already done, he was already out.
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Sounds like you two really have a handle on things.<P>Good for you!!<P>Just remember to always put each other first and you will do great.<P>Doubts are normal at this time - you've had a trauma .......give it some time.<P>Don't dwell on the past except to make the future better!!!<P>Good Luck to you both and God Bless<P>Hugs,<P>Sheba
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