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Well, divorce hearing date is set for 4 weeks. Tonight H and OW left for a 3 day vacation. I am finding myself feeling those intense feelings again. Wanting him back so badly again. I'm not sure if it is hormones or what. I know it is not my objective mind speaking but my emotions are all out of wack. What should I do??
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Hi Cam -<P>Your feelings are normal.<P>You just got hit with a shot of realization of the finality of your situation coming to a divorce.<P>When I had my court date - I was a wreck the threads on here somewhere.....<P>It stinks.....just stinks!!<P>You'll be OK, it will - like every other aspect of this mess - take time!!<P>Hugs and Strength to you,<P>Sheba
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Rachel - I'm afraid you'll have to ride these feelings out. This is all so unfair!! It's like a rollercoaster that you can't get off of. I still have the same feelings sometimes - of wanting my H back and our life back, wishing he could become the kind of person I could trust and respect again. But alas, he is now married to the OW. The pain is gone for the most part, but it still surfaces from time to time. I expect it will continue to do so for quite some time, if not forever. I loved him so very much, and having him ripped away was like having a part of myself ripped away. A bond that lasts so many years is not so easily broken or forgotten. Hang in there - you are going to be fine. My heart aches for you - I understand all too well what you are feeling.
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