I know this isn't really the right thread to respond to, but pardon me for not taking the time to look up the right thread. Most of you on here know me, as several pieces of my personal information were plastered over this message board for awhile now. Back to the reason I took the time to register and actually post something here. I came here to set the record straight on some things. Despite the things that have been said about me (infidel, the joke on my initials, etc), I actually have no hard feelings towards anyone on this board, save one. Since this is obviously the vehicle to post personal attacks without much knowledge of anything, I thought I would respond to some things that are incorrect. First, I have never had an affair before this. Secondly, I never expected to find myself in the middle of an affair. By the way, next time you try to find my address to send something to my W, most counties have an online directory of homeowners that you can easily access by last name. Might have saved you some money. The rumors spread by one of the members here that a friend of his and I were drinking at a bar one night are completely false. I have not drank since I was in the Marine Corps. I would love to meet this individual that I have theoretically spent so much time with though. Especially since one night that I was supposedly out drinking with him, myt car was in the shop. I had a rental, that was parked in front of my hotel all night. Another falsehood, but someone on here seems to be very fond of taking bits and pieces of information and twisting them to get the desired result from the other members of this forum. Just to let you know, my mother, who is supposedly physically ill over all of this, has been sick with a disease called vaso vega(sp?) for some years now. As a matter of fact, she almost dies when I was stationed in Okinawa, Japan. The night that you felt obligated to call her and speak with her for an hour, she had been in bed for 4 hours with a BP of 84/50. I guess what I am saying is leave my parents out of this. They have nothing to do with this other than giving birth to me 33 years ago. My mother and father are both on diability due to health problems, and do not need your phone calls upsetting them. By the way, I did let my mom know about how everything she told you got twisted on this MB. She said something about a cold day in Hell before she took another one of your phone calls. Why does everyone act so suprised that some of your significant others might be reading this? This is the WORLD WIDE WEB, accessed by anyone with a computer. You picked a poor place to hide this if that was your intention. I have not been assigned to another office, and have resigned my position at the company I worked for. I didn't like the threats about jobs, and the funny thing is, they weren't even directed at me for the most part. Of course, I'm not the one you're screaming and yelling at am I? You did have a friend ( who wouldn't even give me his name) call me to threaten me one morning though. And who can forget the phone call at 1:13 A.M. telling me to come get my f***buddy because you kicked her out of the house? The funny thing is, I actually DID attend a private school for a few years, and don't remeber that being part of the English curriculum. Must be different religions. Must be part of growing up in the "south side" like you told me that morning. Don't worry though, I'm watching my back, just like you told me to. By the way, crimes of passion are not pre meditated, they're done in a blind rage of passion, so that defense won't work anymore. As far as all of the "information" that you supposedly have about me, I would fire whoever supplies you with it. About 90% of the information you have put on here, and not just about me, has been incorrect. Oh, and when exactly did I mock you on phone calls?? I believe you were the one doing a poor impression of my accent. The one with the threats. You think you know anything about me or my relationship? You don't even know what was going on in yours, how you had isolated your wife the way you did. Just to let you know, YOU left the door open in your marriage, I didn't force anything open. That's a quote from my W, who understands that she left the door open also. And as far as being in touch with her on almost a daily basis, more BS. Seems that you're pretty good at telling everything but the truth. No, I did not handle things the right way. I should have seperated myself from one relationship before starting anything with anyone else. There is guilt on both parties' sides about that. The funny thing is, if you and my W had actually been there emotionally for us, this would have never been an issue. It would have never happened. The whole getting a trailer thing is not to be with me as much as it is to be away from YOU. The whole DNA thing about the baby cut her deeper than you will ever know. Of course, you've never even asked her how this has affected her. Seems to be par for the course with you. My W and I had talked about the problems we had in our marriage, and my mom was aware (before your phone call) that my relationship was less tham perfect. As a matter of fact, she told me she wondered why I kept trying for as long as I did. Really pays to have all of the information correct doesn't it? Just to let you know also, most states now consider license plate numbers to be part of the privacy act, and won't even let you get that information at the county seat, which is where you register typically. Be careful of the information that you spread, it could open you up to a lawsuit. Don't worry though, I printed out every message that has my info on it, before it was moderated and edited. As far as being cheated on, I was. My mom told you that. I did love the artistic creativity that you employed by saying this was done out of revenge for what happened to me, which she did not say. She also did not say that she was on your side. What she did say is that she was not on my side, your side, my W's side, or your W's side, she was on the kid's side. I know alot can be forgotten from the phone to the computer though. Try ginseng, I hear that helps with memory loss, or just changing things to suit your needs. She even told you that I am a good man, but that never made it to the board did it? Weird how that works. I know this probably falls on deaf ears, because you have twisted the story to the point that everyone feels like everyone except you had some part to play in your relationship problems. To anyone other than NRM that this offends, I apologize. I do not blame you, because you were giving advice on misinformation. From this point on though, you might try at least verifying information before casting stones.

The funny thing is, if you and my W had actually been there emotionally for us, this would have never been an issue. It would have never happened.

This guy is a rambling idiot. Do some research on OW/OM, and they are not known for their good looks and superb educations.

Good people don't mess with Married people and the statistics on there character follow suit.

And from what my FWH says, and would have to agree.

Trust me, your wife will figure out what a great catch the OM is, soon enough. If she figures it out before you fall out of love with her or still have some love left, is up to her.

you said he responded to my post? where is this?