I actually have no hard feelings towards anyone on this board, save one. Since this is obviously the vehicle to post personal attacks without much knowledge of anything, I thought I would respond to some things that are incorrect.

This is what I call typical smooth OM talk. They are all beyond been upset or to insult anyone. They are all very understanding folks. This jerk is sleeping with someone else’s wife and then is upset because of personal attacks or insulting remarks. Dude, some OMs actually get murdered for sleeping with someone else’s wife---------------- count your blessings!



First, I have never had an affair before this. Secondly, I never expected to find myself in the middle of an affair.

That does not make it any more or less acceptable.

I was in the Marine Corps.

You are a joke---- a true marine (Semper Fi) would never act like you do.



The night that you felt obligated to call her and speak with her for an hour, she had been in bed for 4 hours with a BP of 84/50. I guess what I am saying is leave my parents out of this. They have nothing to do with this other than giving birth to me 33 years ago.

How about you staying out of the business of someone else’s family? Do you think the kids deserve the extreme pain and agony that is coming to them because you are a horny SOB? Do you know that this type of activity--- separation and divorce because of an affair is the most devastating blow any child can receive?

I didn't like the threats about jobs,

And he does not like the fat that you went after his wife. For God’s sake put yourself in the shoes of the other person!




YOU left the door open in your marriage, I didn't force anything open.

Typical predatory OM looking for an opening. Part of the I am entitled philosophy. You are not a man dude! You are a cockroach who looks for an angle to satisfy yourself despite the pain inflicted on others. You left the door open------------- what a class act you are! What a major jerk! How can any woman like a man like that??

Thank God this guy is no longer a part of my military. He has no honor. He does not deserve to wear the uniform. We in the Army live by the creed "Duty, Honor, Country." Marines have theirs "Always faithful." Oathes we all took.

This guy doesnt know the word "faithful." Neither does he know the word "honor." He would probably be prosecuted if he was in Iraq now...you know why? Because he would probably see an open door to a house, see somethign he wanted inside, and then go take it. And when he got arrested by the MPs, he would just say "YOU left the door open in your 'house,' I didn't force anything open."

If he was still in the Corps, he would be eaten alive by the ones who have honor. I could see a nice blanket party for him, followed by a discharge for failure to adapt to military life.

He has proven what kind of man he is. He is neither a man, nor a Marine. He says he was in the Marine Corps. That may be true. But he is not a Marine. He has just played pretend. The real him has been proven out in his actions.

And again, I thank God he isnt in uniform, endangering TRUE Marines.

In His arms.

You forgot to mention this as I did. LOL

Yeah, it is a joke, isnt it. Good men dont have to remind people that they are good men. They just are.

In His arms.

Good men dont have to remind people that they are good men

It is amazing--------------- all OMs seem to always say the same words. It is like they have the same script to follow. At the onset all WWs think OM is like God. OMs fosters this believ because they are so smooth. What a joke of a man! The OW does not yet see that the OM will do to her what he is currectly doing to his wife.

Very true. If it quacks like a duck, then it is a ...???

Chicken?