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I would love to hear how you two are doing. I would assume both are fine.
KT, you are such an open hearted, kind person who went through so much. Hope all is well. You gave such a heartfelt touching fight to try contact. And the end result, no contact, and the reasons why, were helpfull to so many here. You are an amazing woman.
Sunny, I remember worrying so much about you, and then watching you get stronger and stronger and being so impressed by your growth and surge back to happiness! Such an inspiration for those choosing contact.
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Hey Lynn, long time!! I am pretty good most of the time. Me and the hubby are doing great. Its nice to talk, argue, discuss other things beside the A and OC. Baby A is now almost 11 months old. We have him just about every week. When ever we want. We are co-parenting w/ the Xow and its all legal!! (ONLY WAY TO GO!!) My life is pretty much as "normal" as it gets. We still go to the "love shack" and spend a great deal of time w/ each other alone. My D is getting older and developing horror-mones! She is 12 and the other is 18 and just moved out on her own.
As far as the C issue we have gotten to a point where its working itself out. I wouldn't do it any other way but legal though. Games, they are getting pretty much non-exsistant. Which if you asked me two years ago, would have though it would never be this way. I really love Baby A and he is a active part of our lives. Its something few are able to do and I am just thankful that we can. Sunny D
***I DO now - Live, love and laugh ****
BS-39
WS-36
M-12 YRS
Together 14 yrs
D-18
D-12
File D 2-12-03
Rec 10-03
OC born 9-04 - Baby A - My step-son!
Have C & Legal visitation
**We are now working towards the same goal **
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Wonderfull!!!!!!!! 12 is a tough age isn't it? Little girl one minute, raging hormone the next!!! 18 and out on her own!!! Time sure goes by fast doesn't it?
I am so glad that everything is working out for you the way you chose. You are like the poster girl for strength and love. I am glad the "Love Shack" is getting used!
Hey, did you ever go on the cruise? If not, start saving your change! My oldest daughter had a change jar on the counter in our kitchen. We all put the days change in there as she was saving for a trip of her own. She would fill it and deposit it. I was thinking it would be about $300.00 After about 6 months, it was more like $1,200. So she and her boyfriend are going skiing this winter. We now have that jar out for our next trip! It is amazing what sits in the bottom of a purse!
11 months old? What a great age. So cute and cuddly. It pays to do it legally, and be demanding up front. I always said it was like training a dog. Spend the early months demanding respect, and it pays off in the long run. Sounds like things are running smoothly in the Sunny house!
Live laugh and love!!
I would advise all newbies to look up all of your old posts and see that there is light at the end of the tunnel and that they will live laugh and love again. You are an inspiration to so many on here!!!!!
God be with you!
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