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Kewl! Good for you! Keep up the good work! Susan <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" />
Money can buy you a fine dog, but only love can make him wag his tail.
~ Kinky Friedman
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Susan -
I can promise you that if it hadn't been for D-day, I would never have moved ahead in my career. I was quite happy taking care of my kids and step kids, and working. After D-day, I had nothing left. So I threw myself into my job. I took all of the courses at night. It was difficult, but I had nothing else to do.
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Something good that came out of it and something to be thankful for! How many years do you have? Long enough or close to a retirement?
Susan
Money can buy you a fine dog, but only love can make him wag his tail.
~ Kinky Friedman
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Susan - 28 years - so yes, I can retire.
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believer, you sound really strong today. And glad to hear you got the van back. Will you be finally changing ownership to your name?
I hope you are able to close the lid on the matter with WH. I don't understand what he's still escaping from??? After all this time, I mean wldn't the D let him move on with life "better" with the OW? He's not working on anything!!!! It's really beyond my comprehension!
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Ashley - It is beyond my comprehension also. He has been living with OW for over 2 years. They belong together. I am hoping that all of this will be over this weekend.
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Glad to hear you got the van back!
BW-28-me
FWH-27
D-Day 10-04
Together- 13 yrs
Married- 4 yrs
EA- 3 months -turned into a weekend PA, he came home on Sunday and told me.
HS/College Sweethearts
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You know Believr, I love you and all, but I suspect you are JUST AS GUILTY as your WH in your DIVORCE not being final yet. You don't strike me today as the person who would be waiting for a some moral-"less" cretin of a man to get moving to get a divorce. If you TRULY wanted it, you would have it already. I think NOW, you want it, so I have no doubt that it will happen NOW>
Just my unasked for .02.
Some people just don't get it, they don't get it that they don't get it.
I had the right to remain silent.......but I didn't have the ability.
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Lemonman -
You are EXACTLY right. You helped blast me from victim to overcomer. Got my van back, and now gonna kick [censored] until I get the papers signed. Watch for this weekend.
And thanks {{{{{{Lemonman}}}}}}
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Hey Believer, Now you can drive to the MB shindig in Toluca Lake at Bob's...Glad you got your van back...but WH is still a bum... ss <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
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