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I have developed for myself a software program that helped me durign my wife's affair. I have continued to add functionality to it as I have learned more.
I am interested in finding out how much interest would be out there for BSs to have something like this. It essentially allows you to record relevent info based on the MB way of dealing with affairs. It is formatted so that as you add the info, it also gives you what you are missing (such as if you are in Plan A, it will prompt you concerning efforts made to expose the affair). All of this information is recorded in the database. You essentially are keeping a database with all of the info, journaling and planning in your fight for your marriage. And reports are able to be printed out, for your use...or even to take to yoru attorney if things reach that point.
My questions have to do with the level of interest of somethign like this. So, please answer the polls. And also, post any items or functionality that you would want or expect to have in something like this.
Thanks in advance.
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Thanks for those that have posted so far. Again, if there is something specific that you would think should be in there, please post. Thanks.
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"Never forget that your pain means nothing to a WS." ~Mulan
"An ethical man knows it is wrong to cheat on his wife. A moral man will not actually do it." ~ Ducky
WS: They are who they are.
When an eel lunges out And it bites off your snout Thats a moray ~DS
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I would have been crazy interested in something like this...I think most people in our situations would, I would have grabbed onto anything....and even though $50 is a lot to me, it would have been worth it.
-Caren
Always Look For Grace Given, Even in the midst of Grace Denied.
BS-Me 39 WH-37 Together 15 years Married 12 years 7 kids total, His: SD20, SS18, Twin SS's 16. Mine: DD22, DD15 Ours: DD12 Affair began Fall 04, Separated Fall 04,2 Failed Plan B attempts, False recovery of sorts Spring 05.......Still pluggin' away.
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That crossed my mind. But I didnt actually make the program...I had two developer friends of mine design it for me and tweak it as they went along. So, it really belongs to them. I was more interested in just covering the cost of getting it from them and offering it on a website. I know it helped me extremely. It really helped in keeping the bigger perspective for me, as I accumulated so much information, I could really see where things were headed. And where I was weak in my plan, or in my preparation.
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Last edited by shattered dreams; 07/28/05 10:18 AM.
BH - me 53, ONS 1979 FWW - 51, 2 EA's, 1 PA Last D-Day, Sep. 30, 2003 Last Contact/recovery began 2-26-04
***You can do anything with time and money...but remember...money won't buy you time!***
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We BS certainly need all the help and resources that we can get. Would your program have the detailed information needed as to what to do next ? Or would it be just a vehicle to record what has been done so far ? I guess that was not clear to me. I am in favor of anything that would help those in need.
Thanks as always, Carnation
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