Is it progress when WH says he wants only me and our family. He says that's what he wants, I want so bad to believe him, just scared. Last night I told him that I needed him to do some research and work on this also, not just me reading the books and saying here read this. He said he would go to Barnes and Noble this week and gets some books. He said that he would go to counseling if that's what I wanted him to do. Of course he had to throw in that he had a sour taste about it because of the MC we had before. I didn't care for her either and we stopped going. I read on a post here that there are certain questions we should ask to make sure the MC is the one we both want. I am compiling a list of things I want to ask. I just wish I could believe there was a garauntee that this won't happen again. Any advice is helpful. I have posted our story on here but wasn't sure if I start a new one with this question or not. I am new to this support thing and it is amazing to me how this helps just reading your stories and answers. To realize I really am not alone in all this. Thanks!