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Sad Sad Day #1439610 07/27/05 06:37 PM
Joined: Jun 2005 Posts: 316 J joanna32 Member
joanna32 Member J Joined: Jun 2005 Posts: 316	Hey guys having a bad day FIL is dying and only has about 24 could not be with him due to the children they didn't need to see that. haven't talked to WH don't know how he will handle it. You never know until you get there. Please pry for us Me BS32 WH 31 d-DAY may 30, 05 2DD ages 12&2 Headed for D fast reside in KY Married 4 years together 8 Go figure thinks he is a good father 4 days a month. Left our home moved in with OW

Re: Sad Sad Day joanna32 #1439611 07/27/05 06:46 PM
Joined: Sep 2003 Posts: 27,069 San Diego County B believer Member
believer Member B Joined: Sep 2003 Posts: 27,069 San Diego County	Can you get a babysitter to be with your husband? Or doesn't he want you there?

Re: Sad Sad Day believer #1439612 07/28/05 01:28 AM
Joined: Dec 2002 Posts: 1,141 M Miss M Member
Miss M Member M Joined: Dec 2002 Posts: 1,141	Joanna, Get someone to watch the kids, and be there for FIL. This is like, and EMERGENCY <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" /> The fat lady has not sung yet!!!! It is family time, and until further notice, that is what is happening. This is FIL time. This is not about you or WS. THIS IS YOUR FIL'S time, not yours or WS. Don't bring that into it. You know what to do. And it will look well on you in the end. Do what is right. You have to put your WS and all grief aside for the moment. I hope you have found a way to go to him and say goodbye, and say that you love him very much. If you have not, then I think he knew that you loved him, in spite of the circumstances. You are still one of the family. You are not D'd yet. And it is okay to have kids around, maybe not at the death bed,l but is okay for them to be nearby, as death IS afterall, a part of existance, and nothing to fear, in mvho. Love in Christ, Miss M me: FBS H: FWS Fully recovered

Re: Sad Sad Day Miss M #1439613 07/28/05 05:33 AM
Joined: Jun 2005 Posts: 316 J joanna32 Member
joanna32 Member J Joined: Jun 2005 Posts: 316	Hey guys FIL passed about 2:30. Wh wasn't there when it happened was with ow. I am alone and have to deal with it on my own.FIL loved me as his own I got to say goodbye last night but could not be there for the end. i am really sad to day and I don't think it will get better for a while. We will now have to deal with the funeral and the relative that don't know that we are sperated. WH will have to tell his grandfather I am not up to that. Was suppose to move into my new house today I don't think that will happen. Me BS32 WH 31 d-DAY may 30, 05 2DD ages 12&2 Headed for D fast reside in KY Married 4 years together 8 Go figure thinks he is a good father 4 days a month. Left our home moved in with OW

Re: Sad Sad Day joanna32 #1439614 07/28/05 05:41 AM
Joined: May 2005 Posts: 1,724 UK A Alphin Member
Alphin Member A Joined: May 2005 Posts: 1,724 UK	{{{joanna32}}} I'm very sorry for your loss. Alph. Me, BS 37 Him, WXH (Noddy) 40 DD13, DD6 Married 14th August 1993 D/Day 2nd April 05 Noddy left us 3rd April 05, lives with OW (Omelette) 28 Divorce final 6th July '06. Time wounds all heels... - Groucho Marx ...except when it doesn't. - Graycloud

Re: Sad Sad Day Alphin #1439615 07/28/05 05:45 AM
Joined: Jun 2005 Posts: 316 J joanna32 Member
joanna32 Member J Joined: Jun 2005 Posts: 316	thanks Me BS32 WH 31 d-DAY may 30, 05 2DD ages 12&2 Headed for D fast reside in KY Married 4 years together 8 Go figure thinks he is a good father 4 days a month. Left our home moved in with OW

Re: Sad Sad Day joanna32 #1439616 07/28/05 05:52 AM
Joined: Jul 2004 Posts: 10,107 England,United Kingdom B Bob_Pure Member
Bob_Pure Member B Joined: Jul 2004 Posts: 10,107 England,United Kingdom	joanna, I am sorry for your loss too. I believe very strongly that sharing someones last journey is a privilege that helps us grieve and get over the loss. I am sorry that your WH wasn;t there. He will regret that terribly. How sad it is that fog affects the decency of so many WS. Make sure your WH tells everyone he is in an affair. If anyone asks you just refer them to ask WH. All blessings. MB Alumni

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