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It's not that he reads here at all. but i still want to post this today.
HAPPY BIRTHDAY HONEY!!! I love you with all my heart. I am so sorry it took me till age 42 to become the woman i am now but I am here for you now and i do love you.
and now... note to self - LET GO OF YOUR SADNESS!!!!! and focus on celebrating the birthday of the man whom you have been so blessed to have in your life. (i must admit, Improving's thead, about how hard being a WS is, was REALLY hard to read!!! i think i should of skipped that one today).
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Every birthday is a lid on the past and a springboard to the future !
This stranger wishes him all blessings !
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Congrats with your H's birthday FL! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
Take care and blessings,
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Happy birthday to Mr. FL!!!
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me: FWW/BS 52 H: FWH/BS 49
DS 30
DD 21
DS 15
OCDS 8
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thanks bob, suzet and faith. your posts mean a lot to me. i really take comfort in knowing there are so many kind people out there wishing him a happy birthday, even if he does not literally know you all wish him a happy birthday, i believe he will feel it in the air. at least that is my hope.
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Happy Bday Mr. FL!
And FL - have a WONDERFUL day - make NEW memories with him today!!!
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FL & Mr. FL, Happy Birthday Mr. FL!! One of his birthday wishes already came true...you are working on a future together. What other wishes could come true today? Share a thought and make it happen. Enjoy and have fun!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />
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DS-14 & DD-12
together 21 yrs, married 18.5yrs
"I love you but not IN love with you" speech 6/3/04
D-Day 2/25/05; WH moved out 3/15/05 & back too soon 3/22/05...He left again 5/8/06
5/25/06 Plan B.....NC letter 6/18/06
Recovery finally began Jan 2007
We are IN love again!!!Sept 2007
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<img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> thanks confused!!
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Hi FL,
Do me a favor, enjoy your H's birthday with him, smile,laugh, and realize that you are the W he wanted and wants. ENJOY your life FL and enjoy his as well.
God Bless,
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How's your old man? Haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" /> Mr. Pep and I vowed NOT to refer to each other as "My old lady" or "My old Man" .... but I never took a vow to YOU FL <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" />
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JL, thanks. your advice has not steered me wrong yet (speaking of which, have you read any of paranoid's thread?). and you are right, today is not the day for any sadness at all!!!! which means i am staying far away from improving's "why being a FWS s*cks". it got me down this morning and i know similar feelings are going to get me down on other days too. but NOT today <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> he enjoyed the mini eclairs i got for him from the bakery this morning when he got home from golf. he suggested we get together for lunch today. and then we will do dinner with his mom and head out to the lake where i have promised him a full fledge foot rub with the various things I have given him the past 2 xmas's. on sunday, he and i (and maybe the kids if they want to join us) are going golfing. not like i'm any good, but we had fun the last time we went. he gives me 2 strokes per hole and we play "skins". i won the first time (last summer), he won when we went about a month ago. this might be the tie breaking game. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> Pep!!! we don't refer to each other as old man or old lady cuz we are NOT old!!!! and that is all i'll say to that!!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
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Congrats to your H! Hug him, enjoy him and just enjoy the rest of your life. You've earned it.
Hugz,
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FLT2M - Today is an excellent day to be born on - it's my birthday, too! I'm 50, and feel every minute of it, but as they say, "Every day above ground is a good day," right?!!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />Tell your H many happy returns!!!!! God bless, Rose
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Happy B-Day ROSE!!!!! you don't look a day over 30!!! I will pass your b-day wish on to my H. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> enyoy your day too!!!
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FLT2M - LOL! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> Rose
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