Are you guys ready. FIL memorial service was today. I of coarse made my apologies to WH brothers last night that I would not be attending the service due to OW presence. They understood and could not blame me they feel WH is being very tacky with his behavior. They are upset that he did it and SIL are upset as well. Meanwhile all of then are ralling behind me and telling him he is screwing up. He is ruining his life and his kids. they don't even like the fact that OW wants to be around the kids, HA HA. I warned him but the fog prevails. I am going to sit tight move on and do well. But I will savor the day when he wakes up and reality setd in of just what he has done. That and a check each and every month will be my revenge.
Good news though there is a support group starting for divorce and seperation at my MIL's church I am enrolling. Will continue my IC as long as Insurance holds out. Got a good line on a good job as well. Hope to here soon. Almost finished moving to boy what a pain.

Keep hanging in there sweetie, I know how hard it is. My H's family is appalled by his behavior and are coming all the way from alaska to speak with him. Won't save our marriage, but needs to be done. You are doing right by living well. I am doing that too. Mr. Right is out there some where darn it! mlhb

yeah no worries but he has gone from lets file for the D and get it over with to are you going to have the money for the bankruptcy. go figure. just going with the flow and see where it takes me. i am in my new place and it is quiet no prank or nasty calls here noone has this number and i don't want anyone to have it. I did not like being afraid to answer the phone. got a relay going if WH has anything to say

I'm getting the hang-ups right now and wondering if Caller ID is worth it...too many "unavailables" and "unknown numbers." I bet I'm getting 3-4 a day when I used to get one a month. I stopped answering if it doesn't say who it is....period. That has helped.
SAR2

well thats why i decided not to give wh my new number I know where the calls were coming from and it does no good to tell them they are as thick as granite. I find it unbelievable that he is so uncaring about the whole situation. but hey I am moving on and i feel pretty good. i don't have to dread the next phone call or if or when he will show up again. Plan B is great for me. and best of all i don't have to hear his voice everyday he can call his mother to find out about the children there is no law that says i have to talk to him. so he can stick that in his pipe and smoke it