This might be a little to soon to be feeling the way I do but again I havent seen my H since i found out about the A. He is currently in Iraq and he had the A while on his 2 wk R & R. I wont be able to see him until December. I dont know if i am feeling good about things bc I dont see him everyday and I dont have to look at him yet. Yes, I am hurting but when i find myself dwelling on what he has done I am a completely different person. I find anything to get my mind off of what happened. Also, I have to be strong for our 2 children. My H has agreed to NC with OW, MC when he gets home and he has also been talking to a chaplain over in Iraq . He has also checked this site out, not alot bc his time on the computer is very limited. He gets a chance about every 4 days to come online. Its like he has done a complete turn around, he's told me he has realized what he could have lost and the A was def. not worth it. He has admitted he did wrong and will do whatever it takes to ensure that our M survives and nothing like what happened before will happen again. I feel really positive about things, Its just this feeling i have. I hope its right. Just not sure if i should be feeling this way, once again maybe its bc i havent faced him yet.

Good luck!