Hello MB folks,

My son and wife climbed into her car this morning and headed off to our new life and beginnings in CO today. Our eldest came by to cry and see them off. It was a sad departure for all but me. I did cry but it was different for me. I finally saw this whole mess coming to a close for me. My wife looked deep into my soul and said I love you. I almost broke down right there but I would have none of that. As soon as the house is finished and sold I will join them. I have a group of the most loving and non-judgemental friends in the world waiting for them. I know they will be in good care.
My DD stuck around for a bit, gave her some things from the house and told her I would call her later to see how she was doing. I went into the house and cried for the next 2 hours. I can finally start this recovery process. I have felt a wave come over me that I can't describe. I think it is my heart starting to form from all the shattered pieces.
This is a new and glorious day for me.

~~congratulations~~

I did not want this to fall off the front page without notice!

BKarl <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

Thanks Pep,

I really do admire your posts. This is not the business of be nicey-nicey. I believe cold/hard in your face tactics are needed to crush this disease called infidelity. The reason I call it a disease is because it is rampant and it is becoming immune to most treatments. If you are not willing to do whatever is required to erradicate this disease it will become epidemic in proportions.
To all the WS that don't have what it takes, shame on you! I am a BS and I have gone above the call of duty to save my marriage. Can you say the same?
My wife and I will make it, I have no doubt! I have just started to recover and I will in time.

Colorado is a nice place to live. It's my state. It's been pretty hot! Pack your sunscreen and moisturizer.