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please decipher wh speak for me?
#1444698 08/04/05 10:43 AM
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I need to work back to love you?
She not imprtant and is not the issue- its me and you.
Im waiting for my own place- but im staying with her in a seperate room.
I still care for you/love you and am working on this. give me time. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/confused.gif" alt="" />
Re: please decipher wh speak for me?
winterkisses #1444699 08/04/05 10:50 AM
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la la land aka land of fruits ...
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la la land aka land of fruits ...
fence sitting, cake eating, fogbabble

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me: FWW/BS 52 H: FWH/BS 49
DS 30
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Re: please decipher wh speak for me?
faithful follower #1444700 08/04/05 10:59 AM
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All it means winterkisses is that your WH isn't doing what he needs to end the A.It's all excuses( I.e. fence sitting,cake eating,avoidance,fogbabble like FF said,etc).We have heard it all before.Don't read anything else into it than the hogwash it is ok?

Reminder: **Watch his ACTIONS**

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Re: please decipher wh speak for me?
winterkisses #1444701 08/04/05 12:25 PM
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I need to work back to love you?

Means: I'm a selfish [censored] and this is all about me and my wants and my desires. If this deal with the OW doesn't work out, I be back but right now she ROCKS.

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She not imprtant and is not the issue- its me and you.

Means: Leave my toy out of this. I want my toy to seem innocent and not screwed up like me.

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Im waiting for my own place- but im staying with her in a seperate room.

Means: I sleeping with her, but don't want you to think I am so that I can string you along and you won't burst my bubble.

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I still care for you/love you and am working on this. give me time.

Means: Can I have another piece of cake while I blow words out my butt and sit on this fence?

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