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When a WS chooses to end the A they will go through withdrawal. If it becomes too overwhelming and they don't have the support they need they could stray in some way and talk to the OP. This gives them a type of relief even though it starts the clock all over again.
BS's are also suffering withdrawals - the withdrawal of the life they had before D-day. Difference is that BS's can NEVER stray back to the life they once had. They must suffer and deal with the pain with only time to help their wounds.
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Never thought of it that way but how true that is!
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DDay-6/17/05
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It's true that WS's can fall off the wagon when BS's are forced to ride that wagon till the end. It's not fair.
Hopeful4future
The character of a person is defined by their actions...not their intentions. Otherwise, the world would be full of Saints.
BS: 40 (Me)
xFWW: 50
Married: 9/97
PA: 3 months
D-Day: 6/30/2005 (she revealed to me)
Divorced: 10/2/2008
Happy that I've moved on
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