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Joined: Feb 2003
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Some of you may remember my story. OW moved away and no contact for more than a year.
This week I used his phone. I noticed a call from her area code. It was her. They talked for 25 minutes.
Then she called him again the next day. I was near so he made the call short. He never said a word
to me about the calls.
Today I received a notice from the IRS, guess she didn't pay her taxes and they want us to
garnish her, although we no longer do business with her. I showed him the notice....still no mention
of her calling him.
Should he have told me?? He knows her name is a bad subject, but I would think he would
have said something when he had the chance
instead of risking me finding out.that he spoke with her.
What do you think? SHould I say something or sit back..I am thinking maybe she is in our state visiting
family or something.
me 45
Suspected WH? 48
H had EA but will never admit it.
M 20 years
D 23 (previous M)
D 17 (ours)
D-day No solid proof, H denies EA and PA
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Joined: Apr 2005
Posts: 469
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Joined: Apr 2005
Posts: 469 |
Oh....My...Gosh...
You have voiced the fear I live with every day.
That, the b***h will come back, reach out, call my H.
Should you say something?
YES. YES. YES.
You know H spoke to her for 25 minutes.
Ask him if he has something to tell you. About the ow. He seems 'lost in thought', 'like he was when he was in C with xow (no caps for them, they don't rate).
Her name is a 'bad subject'? Duh.
If he doesn't tell you, tell him you *know*. Don't explain how.
(I have to go seethe for awhile, now).
me-FBS M-6/84 3 great kids
A-2/03-5/04 DDay-5/8/04 WD - severe-5/04-9/04 with continuing C; NC ltr-9/3/04
In Recovery with God's help
Praying for all WS/BS. Blessings!
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Joined: Mar 2000
Posts: 1,885
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Joined: Mar 2000
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You have to bring it up. Stand up for YOU!!!!!
Me 35
STBX 39
Dear son 9
Married...15 years (Jan. 20, 1990)
D-Day July 20, 2004.
Divorcing!
What goes around comes around
Sometimes we have to hold our head high, blink back the tears and say GOOD-BYE
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