well, stbwxh really ticked me off last night. It was his night with the kids and what does he do?? he spends the day with them and as soon as they are asleep he gets someone to watch them so he can go for booty call with ow. (he has moved out) I was not impressed. I left him a voice mail that states I am not playing that game. When he has the kids he is to be with the kids all night long. What if they wake up and look for him and he is not there? I told him if that is what he wants he can have the kids during the day and bring them back to me in the evening. I also said since no papers are signed yet he is walking a very thin line. What an idiot he is. And she is too. Spoke with ow stbxh last night as well and he is beside himself. this poor man just cannot get over this and I am afraid he is on the verge of a breakdown. He still calls her everyday and wants to know all about her relationship with my H. He is absolutely torturing himself. It is very painful to hear. I hope he can snap out of that soon before he just loses it. And the dominoes just keep falling from the aftermath this affair has caused. I picked my kids up today and my son was in a mood as he has been during this and when we got home I just held him while he cried. It sucks my kids must go through this all because my H is never satisfied with what he has, selfish jerk. grrr...!!! mlhb