I posted a letter to my wife with some points that I want her to agree to in:

How to make my marriage special again?
Infidelity >> Plan A/Plan B


Reality is that points 4 & 5 of mine are non negotiable, when & how do I tell her?

4. I wanted to hear you tell me that being faithful means more to you know than ever. “We should make a new commitment to each other.”

5. Intimate honesty with no omissions, this one I know you have a hard time with, but I believe it to be the bedrock of what I thought our marriage was and want it to be.


How long into plan A recovery do you state that there must be changes and these are what they are?


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