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I'm trying to find out if my FWH has had any contact with OW.
I just want to cross my t's and dot my i's.
So this is my problem.
I'm trying to get his cell phone records. But, this is proving to be impossible, since the records go to his business. It's impossible for me to get his account number that is listed on the invoice.
The cell phone is telus.
any bright ideas out there???
Thanks for anyinput or advice...
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Do you have his cell phone number ? There are alot of services online that can get you cell phone records. You will need either the actual number or name and address.
You can also obtain land line phone records. Yours or his.
Hope this helps. I do understand.
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Yep...I have both...
but since the credit card's are both his, how do I go about doing this anonomysly?
Help!!!
Gosh, when you are in the thick of things you just can't see the answer...
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I just went to the Telusmobility site, this isn't a U.S. company, is it?? LOL Anyway.........here's the info they want: You will need to provide us with the following information: * Client number. This number appears on the upper left of your invoice. * Postal code. This is the postal code shown on your invoice. *PIN. Your PIN is the four to six digit password you use to access TELUS Mobility's Interactive Voice Response system, -or- Last invoice amount. The total amount due shown on your most recent invoice. The website is: https://secure.telusmobility.com/mytelusregistration/html/en/corp/registerHope this helps. -Caren
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BS-Me 39
WH-37
Together 15 years
Married 12 years
7 kids total, His: SD20, SS18, Twin SS's 16.
Mine: DD22, DD15
Ours: DD12
Affair began Fall 04, Separated Fall 04,2 Failed Plan B attempts, False recovery of sorts Spring 05.......Still pluggin' away.
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I've been there myself...
I have all the information...but...
account number on invoice...
is it possible this info is in the phone?
I have full access to his cell phone. And I'm fully aware that he might be 'erasing' calls.
Is this information somehow in his phone info?
Thank you for any help you can offer...
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can you hack into an online account? Or can you get a man to help you fake it by calling and ordering new invoices?
As for confidentiality, you can open a free checking account and get a debit card to go with it. Would you be able to do that?
pretty confused
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Caren should be able to help you with this. She is real good with this kind of stuff. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
I am quite pleased with myself as I have forwarded calls to my WH cell to my cell. I tried it myself from a land line, and it just leaves a message as normal, with his number.
He does not know that I have done this. (cell ph. in a zillion pieces) so he can't warn her and I am awaiting her call !!
I do believe cell phones play a big part in an A. Could be wrong.... at least they are easier to track than your house phone.
Good luck - Wishing you the best.
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So the invoice goes directly to his company??? So you can't get the invoice?? You have full access to his cell phone....can you check his voice mail??? That's all that Telus is asking for if you don't know the invoice #, that you know the pin number *PIN. Your PIN is the four to six digit password you use to access TELUS Mobility's Interactive Voice Response system, [color:"red"] -or- [/color] [b]Last invoice amount. The total amount due shown on your most recent invoice. Actually, if he lets you check his voice mail, then you're in there. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> Would he be mad if you simply told him that you'd like to access the account online? You know the whole *People who have nothing to hide -- hide nothing* thing? You're in recovery, and I think you're supposed to have implemented the PORH thing......so I don't know if you're still supposed to *snoop*. -Caren
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BS-Me 39
WH-37
Together 15 years
Married 12 years
7 kids total, His: SD20, SS18, Twin SS's 16.
Mine: DD22, DD15
Ours: DD12
Affair began Fall 04, Separated Fall 04,2 Failed Plan B attempts, False recovery of sorts Spring 05.......Still pluggin' away.
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Caren,
I have all the info required BUT account number. I've tried to get in, but I need all of the above plus account number...
I guess maybe I should just ask him for the cell phone records???
The thing is...OW called me with a new number a month or so ago. I could have sworn I had seen that number on his cell phone, but I can't truly remember. When I asked him about it, he said...no...it never happened...ect...
I just want to check it out to make sure...
Thanks,
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Caren, maybe I should clarify the info I do have. It is a business phone...so the invoice goes to his work place. I have NO way of getting a copy of that invoice. I do have: pin number (he's let me check his voice mail) last amount paid (he leaves his cheque book at home) address telephone number and of course full access to his phone when he is sleeping <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" /> I don't have: account number Thanks so much... like I said... want to make sure that FWH is on the up and up with me!
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Telus is a Western Canadian company and you can check cell phone bills online. But you are right, you do need an account number to do so. I am not sure how you would get ahold of it.
BUT you could call telus, they will ask for the 10 digit number of his phone number, and depending on if it's registered to him or the business, whether his business pays or not, you being his wife, they may be able to give you the account#. I know my H had taken me off his bill, but recently now that we are reconciled, I was able to call in and give payment information, although they wouldn't let me change any details.
Give it a try - the most they will say is sorry unless you are on the account we cant.
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I just knew it wasn't a U.S. company because of the formal wording...etc. I was like WHOA...lol. So it's asking you for the account number in addition to the other info?? I don't know how to hack it....I obtained access to my WH cell phone account, but I knew all his info, and it wasn't a company phone...and I also got access to OW's cell phone records.....and you needed the last 4 of the social for that. I have a friend that is in collections, and the OW had 1 ticket for a traffic accident a long time ago....my friend got a friend that is a bail bondsman to pull her court record and gave me her social....not exactly legal...but oh well <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" /> -Caren
Always Look For Grace Given, Even in the midst of Grace Denied.
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WH-37
Together 15 years
Married 12 years
7 kids total, His: SD20, SS18, Twin SS's 16.
Mine: DD22, DD15
Ours: DD12
Affair began Fall 04, Separated Fall 04,2 Failed Plan B attempts, False recovery of sorts Spring 05.......Still pluggin' away.
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Well let me call and see if they will give me H's account # without being on the account (cause he hasn't called to do so yet) and see what happens... lol brb!!
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So I press 1, then put in the phone #, then say Operator (automated voice director), then I said other - then got an operator - she wanted his PIN - but it wasn't the same as his voicemail pin, so I didn't have it. She asked instead for two verifications, - his date of birth and his mailing address which I had, then happily gave me the account #
I told her I needed to pay his account this month, and needed to set up online banking, so I didn't need any info but the account...
Try it!
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Oh and the # I called was 1-866-558-2273 as I am not in a major city
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yep - we use telus - so it was telus
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did you speak to someone???
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ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh....
I don't want to get caught...
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