ok so i found out that he was in contact (maybe still is) in contact with OW> I am still devestated and dont know what he sollution is. ive been worrying myself sick and know thats not the sollution ok heres what i do know.

on 6/30 at 7:07 she called him and they talked for 4 min.
first on 7/1 she called him at 6:51 they talked for 6 min
on 7/1 at 11:58 pm he callled her they talked for 15 min *this is the day we got in a HUGE fight!
then
7/16 he called her and they talked for 2 min.
he also texted her on 7/13 she did not text him at all.


now i have no idea how to handle any of this he basically forgot about it and has moved on. i can not move on i was so close to trusting him again and boom i'm smacked in the head iwth this!!!! any suggestions. do i let this one slide? i know someone said before he had to have a consquence. but am i really the one to propose the consequence or is god? he knows im mad. he came home from work asap b/c he knew i was on the brink of ending it i cant take this too many more times.@ so now i'm back not knowing if there is contact and thinking the next fifty years of our life is going to be like this. with me starting to trust then Boom he calls her or i find out..