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i am a little new here and i have a question.
MY H HAD AN A AND I WOULD LIKE TO KNOW AFTER YOU HAVE THE HEART TO HEART TALK DO YOU CONTINUE TO ASK QUESTIONS ABOUT THE A AND THE OW AS THEY POP INTO YOUR MIND OR DO YOU JUST LET IT GO?
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Do not let it go. Continue to ask questions so that you both can discover why the affair occured. It doesn't mean you have to ask for details that would make you feel uncomfortable, but you need to find out what the problem was and how to correct it so it doesn't happen again.
Also, consider MC/IC to help you discover the root of the problem. Some times you just can't figure it out on your own and an outsider can help you.
Lastly, keep posting here with questions so we can help you. Remember, every answer that you get may also help someone else.
Good luck
Hopeful4future
The character of a person is defined by their actions...not their intentions. Otherwise, the world would be full of Saints.
BS: 40 (Me)
xFWW: 50
Married: 9/97
PA: 3 months
D-Day: 6/30/2005 (she revealed to me)
Divorced: 10/2/2008
Happy that I've moved on
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thanks for the advice. i made us an appointment for MC. I hope it helps.
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