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Joined: Jul 2005
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I WOULD LIKE TO KNOW IF ANYONE CAN GIVE ME SOME ADVICE.
MY H AND I DISCUSSED THE OW AND OC IN DEPTH (I THOUGHT IT WAS AT THE TIME) BUT FROM TIME TO TIME I HAVE ADDITIONAL QUESTIONS ABOUT THE A AND THE OW. SHOULD I CONTINUE TO ASK THE QUESTIONS THAT I WANT ANSWERED OR JUST LET IT GO?
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Joined: Jan 2005
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I can tell you from my experience the constant questions drive my H nuts! I like you have a million questions. IMO, H should answer the questions. A lot of times the answers are not answers that I was to hear. I drive myself and my H nuts w/ the questions.
Married 5 years. Together almost 14 years.
Age 30
DDay March 2004
OC Born June 2004
2nd Dday Feb 2005
My daughter was born 7/22/05.
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Joined: Sep 2004
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Please excuse this : not trying 2 thread jack, but Wife30 arent you overdue? What does the doctor say?
Now t27amara I really must tell you that when my H and I reconciled back in 1997 we did have our 'big' discussion then a few months later we had another bigger talk with more honesty... then again about a little less than a year... why because my husband's confession was limited for fear he may lose me. As time went on he felt more comfortable and he was confident that honesty was the only way then I had my trigger moments to fully understand and fill in all the pieces of the puzzle... I simply explained to him that I was not really into our talks with a level and clear head at the time. He understood.
But early on, when i was constantly asking almost daily he was very frustrated.
ALL OW DON'T RESPOND OR COMMENT ON ANYTHING I POST EVER. I'M NOT HERE TO SPEAK TO U!
I am here to speak to other BSs that Can relate to my situation and OUR shared experiences.
I COULD CARE LESS WHAT ANY OW HAS TO SAY ABOUT ANYTHING, EVER!
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