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This is a post JUST to HUG you and hope you have a better day tomorrow
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Hope all you gals are doing well. I know it's hard sometimes.
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I think sometimes about all the pain in the world. I hope we can ease that here, even if only a little bit.
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Gosh, Dorry was it that obvious? What a sweet post. Thanks! Yeah depression was bad today. You know what? My DD had me laughing really hard and when I stopped I burst into tears! Felt good too. SS, thanks <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
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me: FWW/BS 52 H: FWH/BS 49
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Awww - it's funny though - just having a good cry makes you feel so much better doesn't it. Glad your DD can make you laugh and lift your spirits. Hang in there.
How is the home front doing?
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Going pretty well, thanks. We had a strange A related discussion yesterday and likely why I am depressed today. Good to get this stuff out but I think I am done with the A stuff. Just can't handle anymore information, KWIM?
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IKWYM!!!
We had a little bit of a rough weekend. H was on and off distant and avoidance of me, and I got paranoid...I thought maybe I was PMSing (since my surgery I don't get periods..so I never know) I thought I was just being paranoid, I got this feeling something wasn't right.
Last night he apologized for being distant that it was nothing I had done, he was just having a rough weekend. The old me would have asked if it was because of my A, or because of his, or is he missing OW? But I let it go, and just told him that it really scared me when he went through that without telling me. He apologized. He said he gets really scared too. He said I guess we will always get these moments. And I said probably not always, but I think it will take alot of time for us to get less and less of those moments.
So because he wasn't talking to me much this weekend until last night, i got really nervous, as when I have those moments, I don't talk to him about them, but I let him know what's going on and get him to help if he can...so it's tough when he is distant...
H and I agreed we aren't allowed to bring up eachother's A's now that we both have details, etc. We figure it just results in comparing and triggering for us both and it's not constructive. Think your H would be up for that too?
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So how is today FF - I hope it's alot better
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H and I agreed we aren't allowed to bring up eachother's A's now that we both have details, etc. We figure it just results in comparing and triggering for us both and it's not constructive. Think your H would be up for that too? We agreed this would be the last "detail" convo unless something came up that was vitally important. Dokng a bit better today, just not myself though. Some anxiety and depression still hanging over me. Glad you and Sprint worked things through. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
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ironically i'm on the opposite side of the fence trying to get my H TO talk to me!!! ugh!!!
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