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#1447056 08/08/05 08:39 PM
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It's been quite a while since I've been here so most of the people I see would have no idea who I am. There are still a few of you that would remember me though.

I just wanted to repay some respect with a visit to a place that got me through the toughest part of my life.

to start, I'm divorced. Although it's a bad word, sometimes it's a good thing. After 2 years of ******, it was a relief to get it over with.

X and I still get along enough to keep things very friendly with the kids.

D has only been final for about a monh now so I am just starting to get on track with starting my new life. for any of you that know what my life was like during seperation, I'm sure you can understand what a difference it is for me now. In short, I am no longer suporting her. She really got a job :-).

I admit that I took a few hits for the sake of my girls, but now I realy get to be me.

Anyway!!! I just wanted to give a little update on me, say Hi to all you MB'rs that may remember me, and most of all, thank all of you for helping me get to where I am

WIWH


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welcome back. Its still a good place to get advice on issues in your new life as well as with divorce.

Stick around and best wishes in getting YOUR life together.
Smiles,
Dawn


XH has multiple addictions. 26 year history of drug&alcohol problems, physical as well as emotional abuse.

Divorced 11-03

Engaged to former sweetheart from my youth, God is Good!

GRADUATED FROM COLLEGE!!!!! Passed my first (and hardest) of 3 medical boards 10-12-07

I am trusting God.

if you keep you face to the sunshine; you will never see the shadows Helen Keller
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I remember you - and it's good to hear from you again. You may not know there is a new forum here now for post divorce. Check it out!

I hope you'll stick around a bit and share the wisdom of experience! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />


Waiting for dawn...
...but not afraid of the dark.

DDay: Sept 26, 2004
Moved out: Dec 16, 2004
D Final: Oct 10, 2006
Deja Vu #1447059 08/09/05 07:03 AM
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Oh yes Wish, you need to check out the post D dating thread. It's about time for you isnt' it.

I can't wait to see how you approach the dating scene. Now that you are D'd the women should be swarming. There aren't that many nice guys out there who are as handsome as you!

Stay strong.


It was a marriage that never really started.
H: Conflict Avoider, NPD No communication skills (Confirmed by MC) Me: Enabler
Sep'd 12/01, D'd 08/03.
My joys and the light of my life: DD 11, DD 9
*Approach life and situations from the point of love - not from fear.*
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HMMMM, newly giving newly D guy compliments..you go girl LOL


XH has multiple addictions. 26 year history of drug&alcohol problems, physical as well as emotional abuse.

Divorced 11-03

Engaged to former sweetheart from my youth, God is Good!

GRADUATED FROM COLLEGE!!!!! Passed my first (and hardest) of 3 medical boards 10-12-07

I am trusting God.

if you keep you face to the sunshine; you will never see the shadows Helen Keller
sunrise1 #1447061 08/09/05 08:18 PM
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"HMMMM, newly giving newly D guy compliments..you go girl LOL "

That started long before D was even filed.

Thanks all

And special thanks to you Newly <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/blush.gif" alt="" />


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Hey there Wish. How's it going?


Divorced.
2 Girls
Remarried 10/11/08
Widowed 11/5/08
Remarrying 12/17/15
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Hey GG, Things are going pretty good for me. How about you? Check your Voice Mail lately? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />


Don't pick the scabs or you will never heal
Marilyn Manson

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