When I found out my H cheated on me I asked him to tell me everything. He told me that he was seriously considering a D when he got home. This was after he met OW obviously. Well today i was sitting here and my mom says I have something to tell you. She goes dont get mad at me or anything. I said alright I wont. She said that he told his friend that he was divorcing me after he got back from Iraq. Now this could either be old news or something new. He hasnt talked to anyone besides me, i've asked him and OW says that he hasnt even tried to contact her through anything which makes me feel good that he is telling me the truth. This friend that has started saying this stuff doesnt know that him and i have decided to work things out and he could just be saying this stuff to bring it back. He will do anything and everything to break us up, he has been trying to do it for the whole 5yrs that we have been together. I just want to flipping deck him he makes me so mad. I have a gut feeling that is telling me not to even bother with what has come up but I do want to ask my H if this is old news. I mean he did tell me that he was considering a D when he got back but now he thinks about how he hurt me and that after all he has done and i tell him i love him that he will never find a girl that loves me as much as i do. So do i ask him or just let this slide? Any imput would be of great help! Thanks

I wouldn't even worry about it. Your husband is gone, and it does you no good. I don't believe it is the truth, but even if it is, he doesn't know what he wants.

Work on yourself, and pay no attention to what other people are saying.

Thanks believer, I just wasnt sure. I'll work on myself getting me better than working on us when he gets back. Probably not a good thing to ask him while he is gone and get talk face to face. Thank yoU!