Came home tonight from hanging out with friends and found that wife went through my stuff and found very important bloodwork info. She stole the paperwork from me and swears she didn't take it, but it was in the middle of papers she admitted to taking.

Anybody know what the law is regarading this? I may have a very serious illness, one from her and one that may be herreditary(sp), but I needed that to give to the lab to read, and now she refuses to give it back.
Anybody know where to go with this beside a lawyer. This is beyond low, and beyond the boundries of the A, this is actually messing mith my physical well being. I an very upset.

She also told me today that because I bring friends to my house that she's entitled to continue her A. How is that for fog?

This has got messy, and WW is really trying to give it to me, which is fine, but when she messes with my house, she's gone too far. Way out of control.

The really messed up thing is that she is talking with people at church and has a bible sitting on the coffee table that she is reading. I wonder how God feels about this type of thing?

This woman that I married has gone far beyond aliean status. She also refuses toleave the house now, because her lawyer advised against it, so I'm constantly torchered in my own house. She says I should leave because I'm the one that's unhappy. She also picks and chooses the nights she wants to sleep in the bed and on the couch.

All I can say at this point is WOW!

navy

why would she take those papers? it makes no sense.

have you exposed the affair to people at church?

She sounds a bit off her tree ... do you think she may need a psych evaluation?

Navy -

My sister is an attorney. As soon as I told her that my WH was having an affair, she told me to remove my important papers from the home. She said that it is very common for the WS to grab the papers.

Like a big dummy, I didn't take her advice seriously. I thought my WH would never do something so low. I looked at the file where we keep our papers, and it was still there. A couple months later I was looking for something, and guess what? Everything was gone. Not only financial things, but my resume, my school records, etc.

Now I am divorcing him, and have to petition the court to get them back.

my husband's been gone for 15 months now.

when he first left, i boxed everything up and took the box to my neighbors house. I got tired of bothering them everytime i needed something so then i put the box in my car. After awhile, i figured, he hasn't even noticed that they are gone-so just last week i put them all back in the file drawers.

hope i didn't make a mistake.

You can probably get copies from your doctor or directly from the lab with proper ID.

There is a new federal HIPA (health information privacy act...I think) but I think that mostly pertains to healthcare providers. If she went to you Dr. asking for info they would not be allowed to give it to her. Have you checked for anything else thats missing? Can she or you move into a guest room? Get a lock on your door.

Do you have an idea of where she might have put the documents?

Navyman,

First, on the medical records. Are those military medical records. If so, those records belong to the U.S. government. Which means your wife would be in violation of Federal law. If these are military records, I would contact the JAG on what can be done. The military is very strict on maintaining its records.

Now, onto the thing you said about church. What church do you go to (denomination)? Depending on yoru answer, I have a solution for that part of it for you. The Bible lays out how one Christian should deal with another Christian that has hurt them or is continuing to sin against them. It also lays out what the church must do.

So, let me know and I can tell you what Scripture says to do. I did these things with my church. It was very helpful.

In His arms.