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kbaymama
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Hi kbay, I didn't want to TJ, but just wanted to comment on your sitch. Yes, and because all of OW's children are from different fathers, she gets all the more money because they give "discounts" for child 2 and 3. I'm sure you knew, but it makes you just wonder if she KNEW that. With some of these women doesn't it just make you want to shake your H and say "What were you thinking!". Probably could do that for more than one reason, but, man, I guess men really don't get women. What can be so obvious to us about a woman, they are so clueless about. Not an excuse, just an observation.

WS: 37 BS: 36 "highschool sweethearts" married 8/98 ds: 12/96 dd: 11/99 ds: 5/02 separated 4/04 A summer '04 D-Day: 9/8/2004 recovery begins 10/04 moves back in 11/04 OC born (girl) 4/05 (Legal C 8/05) "Worry is like a rocking chair. It gives me something to do, but it gets me nowhere."
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la la land aka land of fruits ...
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Funny you should say that cold because I was just asking my FWH the other day why redflags did not go off about OC mama given that she is D'd twice with 4 kids and only has custody of two of them. She only worked pt and lived on CS and the good graces of her exes. Yeah, he sees that now but then he wasn't using his head.

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kbaymama I see her using that as a means of supporting herself. I know that my own desperate cuz had children with many diff men but only to hold on to them... sad part was when they left her and ALL Of them did she simply gave them up for adoption.

ALL OW DON'T RESPOND OR COMMENT ON ANYTHING I POST EVER. I'M NOT HERE TO SPEAK TO U! I am here to speak to other BSs that Can relate to my situation and OUR shared experiences. I COULD CARE LESS WHAT ANY OW HAS TO SAY ABOUT ANYTHING, EVER!

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