WS got home on Tuesday in a very bad way - very upset and not making much sense. Found out from WS that OW had indicated that she wanted no contact. I assume to give him time to decide what he wants to do. Not sure what my plan is now - do I carry on Plan A? feel that she is driving things rather than I.

Me (BS) 46 - moved in December 2004 to be with WH - no real support network to call on WH 44 - moved to new job in June 2004 - 200 miles from home OW 43 - Head of HR in same workplace - but met soulmate so it does not matter about work issues D Day May 2005 - Plan A (with OWH in Plan A too)until December 2005. Plan B - did OK until lapse at end of Oct 2006. WH and I met in 1983, friends until 1989 when started our relationship - moved in together in 1992, and married in 2001.