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It's been a year since I found out the full truth about my husbands affair. To put it mildly, he was not the person I thought he was. Even though he says he never loved this woman and had no intention of ever leaving me for her, I am still so confused by what he did. Does the feeling of insecurity ever go away? I love him so much but sometimes I just want to tell him to f!?#8 off, even though I know this won't make me feel any better. Will I ever get over this???
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Hi Reewil - have you been over to the General Question II on the infedelity boards? There are so many people there that are in the same place as you - D-day post a year or two and still healing.
I do believe the insecurity goes away in time, but it can take years. I was the FWW (former wayward wife) and I too never had intentions of leaving my Husband. Later in our recovery, H had an A and I became a BS as well.
Reading alot of what the WS (Wayward spouses) on the board might help you understand your H, and most of them there are BS (betrayed spouses) like yourself and can give you great support.
Hang in there - I am glad to hear a year later you are full of love for him, even if you still have anger.
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