Well we had the OC last night for an over night stay she is 4 months old, we have had her over night once a week since she was 6wks old, for the part things run smoothly, however last night the baby wouldn't sleep, AT All, my H and I have 2 children together so we did what came normally and took turns staying up with her. I brought her to my husband at 3 am, the OW called our house at 4am very drunk, she called my H a baby stealer and that when they had the A he meant for her to get pregnant so he could steal her baby, I swear we are dealing with a nutcase here. I just wanted to vent. She called him a baby stealer, we take the baby whenver she wants us to no questions asked, but for her to go out and get drunk and call my house, that is inexcusable, then H called this morning to see when she got off of work to bring the baby back and she said she called off of work and we could keep her as long as we wanted. Oh no, drunk girl you are getting your baby back hangover or not. I hate her, I hate that she is in my life and that I have to deal with this bull. My H apologized again this morning for bringing her into our lives. If she doesn't want to be a mommy we will raise her and she can have Visitation. but this nonesense has got to stop. Thanks for listening to me.

laura

Keep a visitation journal ... document every visit with OC .... you never know ... this journal may come in handy in the future.

Something like:

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8/13/05 ... OC arrived . Ate poorly. Sort of fussy. Possibly teething? OC not going to sleep all nite. OW called house at (time of call) ... OW slurred speech saying 'baby stealer' and 'how could you take my baby' and other things not making sense. Think OW was drunk. Cut off call to avoid irate OW in middle of night. Baby OC easier to soothe after warm bath.

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stuff like that

dedicate an entire journal to OC visitation

even write in the 'good stuff' OW does ... so it will be seen as an accurate description of the truth if ever needed in court.

Good luck.

Thank so much for the idea, I already have a book for reciepts for things we buy her and such, I will start this log, I hope I can remember all the times that we had her.

Thanks again