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I just read your post on should i care about the OP
I thought it was intresting what you wrote.I think we said this before.
The OW a CO W was very forward.Always telling my husband she wanted him.Always This was something i did'nt do.I too thought why can't he start.
But now no one could come between us now.We no longer look at it as sex.It is now making love.Oh my gosh i used to feel stupid saying that.actully a never said it before.Now that is all my H and i say.Its great when you have the feelings to go along with it.
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Last edited by numberonemom; 08/15/05 02:23 PM.
Me BW 31
Him FWH 30
Married 13yrs
D-day 12/04
NC right away
New job
Some set backs due to whole truth coming out over a few months.Other wise great first and only recovery.
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I know exactly where you are coming from!
It was my FWH who now claimed that we were making love, this kind of blew me away since he had always called it:
fooling around
a piece
Upon thought, perhaps FWH now sees the difference between 'a piece' and actually making love. LOL!!!
Our stories are very similar, only my FWH A lasted 6 months...
Keep in touch!
BW (Me) 32
WH 43
D-Day 5/25
DS-9
DS-3
In recovery with the help of God and many Angels.
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PA,
See after i found out this women i don't even think wanted anything to do with my H.I think she used him for sex and maybe to piss her H off.Just think a man being used!
I am leaving this sight for a while.I need a break.So after tomorrow night i will no longer have inline. I might have a e-maik acct.I really liked talking to you.I might be back in a few months with what i think will be a great update.Well my e-mail is [email]numberonemom31@hotmail.com.[/email]
I don't know if your intrested in talking that way if it works for me.Or maybe by phone i don't know if anyone does this tho.For me it might be good.I have yet to tell a soul about my H A. If not there will be some way to ck back from time to time to see how your doing.Maybe a liabary.Well i will be here till tomorrow night.
#1mom
Me BW 31
Him FWH 30
Married 13yrs
D-day 12/04
NC right away
New job
Some set backs due to whole truth coming out over a few months.Other wise great first and only recovery.
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It's best for me to email you.
I hope that works for you.
I have your email addy...
best wishes to you and your hubby!
Hugs,
K
BW (Me) 32
WH 43
D-Day 5/25
DS-9
DS-3
In recovery with the help of God and many Angels.
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