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Has anyone else noticed the trend in not the BS but the WW/WH being overly jeaolous of their spouse before the A is exposed? I have several friends that before I found out their spouse was having A, I always thought of the WW/WH as being a very jealous person. They would follow them around like a puppy dog, make surprise visits to work, etc. I have come to form the opinion that this is because they know they are fooling around and are worried the BS is doing the same. Are there any others who have noticed this in their own circumstances? Just wondering.
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My FWH has always been a jealous man, but that really cooled for many years. But recently we were on a vacation having a good time with friends at a bar. I was dancing around and this young college guy who was totally gone came up behind me and started to grind while I danced. The guy couldn't even stand up. So I laughed, but not my FWH. He commented on it and picked him out of the crowd the next day which I thought was unusual. He is not good with faces. This was all at the time of his A. Matter of fact he called the ow everyday that we were on vacation while I was sleeping. Sometimes for 2 hours at a time. Go figure. I noted his jealousy, but didn't understand it.
BW(me)
DDay EA 4/05
DDay PA 6/05
In recovery
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