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I too have to leave these boards. Today will be my last day here. Maybe some day I can come back and be of value and wisdom to someone.
I want to thank all of you for the knowledge I will be leaving here with.
It is time to work on ME.
Time to no longer be a victim in this. I have realized I can only change the way I do things. I cannot change anyone else.
If we are to survive this ordeal we must survive ourselves first. Don't wait. Work on you people!
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good luck, take care, use what you have learned here. post when and if you can. make your life the best life it can be! with or without your spouse. we are all rooting for you! hugs, mlhb
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BK,
Leaving or staying is your option. Always has been. Your reasons for leaving are not clear. Let us know if there is anything we can do.
take care,
L.
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Thanks,
Nothing anyone can do at this point. Just some stuff I need to handle for me. So I can become better. Trying to overcome some last few hurdles to a true and open marriage.
God I wish my wife could be open and share her thoughts with me.
Does she not understand that even the smallest of secrets is slowly killing me.
I need to get a grip on myself. I need to become more strong. My son can see the pain and sadness in my eyes at times.
You want to know something? When my son(he is 10) came up to me the other day and said "Daddy you look like something is wrong, would you like to talk about it" All i could do is tell him No. He knew! "Daddy you know if you need to talk you can and I will listen. I love you daddy." That is my job damnit! It appears my son is stronger than I right now!
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