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Found out today H lied to me about still having his job! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/mad.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/shocked.gif" alt="" /> Things are sooo tight financially and he quites his job and lies to me about it: I aked him the other day cause I had a gut feeling about it and he LIED. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/mad.gif" alt="" /> Makes me wonder what else he's lying about. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" />
married 13yrs-02/02/93
A(about2-3wks) ofSept. 03
almost 3yrs. of sucessful recovery, and getting strongger everyday
d-6/93
s-2/93
ss(oc)-6/04
God and True Love Rule
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I am sorry.
Why did he quit? Why did he feel like he had to lie to you about it?
Is he looking for another job?
Hopefully he will find something else soon.
Lori
Lori
me BS 43
H WS 40
H had 11 yr A
OC Tylor born 4/95
2 girls 11,10 and 1 boy 6
Me- son 23, Daughter 18 in heaven
custody of 10 yr grnddaughter
married 4/88
D-day 3/ 2001
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Taylorsm, Don't know y he lied, he even tried to blame me. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/mad.gif" alt="" /> He is looking for another job. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> Just tired of being the main breadwinner. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" />
married 13yrs-02/02/93
A(about2-3wks) ofSept. 03
almost 3yrs. of sucessful recovery, and getting strongger everyday
d-6/93
s-2/93
ss(oc)-6/04
God and True Love Rule
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angels,
I'm sorry for your pain. He shouldn't have lied. It sure doesn't help your recovery. What else are you guys doing to recover?
I hope it gets better.
J
Do not wait for leaders; do it alone, person to person. -Mother Teresa
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Good new's he got another job, this one is closer to home. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> He's apologised for lying. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />He felt bad about it. He's been doing the housework/taking care of the kids while I work. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/blush.gif" alt="" /> WE are talking more about this and other things,I was so angry and had to vent,kwim.
married 13yrs-02/02/93
A(about2-3wks) ofSept. 03
almost 3yrs. of sucessful recovery, and getting strongger everyday
d-6/93
s-2/93
ss(oc)-6/04
God and True Love Rule
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Hey, that's great news!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" /> I think they are so ashamed and so used to lying, that for awhile they think it might be better to not answer certain things truthfully, not understanding that they only make themselves look worse.
Congrads on the new job and best wishes on recovery!!
J
Do not wait for leaders; do it alone, person to person. -Mother Teresa
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