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#1453640 08/17/05 03:40 PM
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Hi people, My wife is threatening a restraining order because last night I called her a slut, she then called the police, and I had to leave my home. I was totaly manipulted
She had the whole thing planned.

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MNTONY,

Need a little more info. Give us some background on what led to this and what you want to do.


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The character of a person is defined by their actions...not their intentions. Otherwise, the world would be full of Saints.

BS: 40 (Me)
xFWW: 50
Married: 9/97
PA: 3 months
D-Day: 6/30/2005 (she revealed to me)
Divorced: 10/2/2008
Happy that I've moved on
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We need more info and you need a lawyer.

All your wife needs to do is show that you're a threat, there's a history (now the police have been involved) and you can be removed from the house.

In NY state all my XW had to do is say that I threatened her. There was no history, witnesses, nothing but her word. I was given her divorce papers and a restraining order. All I could do is get my stuff and leave for a week. NC with her OR my boys. Her day came in court when I demanded a hearing to get back in my home and access to my boys. I won, easily. Her and her attorney were admonished in court for their actions. BUT it happened! Know this. Get a lawyer. This could have been an act that her lawyer told her to do.

While disrespectful and a LB what you did was not illegal. There is much more to this than meets the eye.


Me BS - 44
FWW- 42
EA for 4 years with fellow employee
became PA in Jan 04 - I knew of this one.
Seperated/ Divorced July 03
2 sons 14 & 12
D Day -6/26/04- PA in 1998 for about 1 year- I had NO idea.
recovery and reconciliation began 6/27/04

Remarried 2/18/06

My story?? Click below.

http://www.marriagebuilders.com/ubbt/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Main=129980&Number=1575914

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