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My W want's to go out with her friends. She has told me that she is done with the OM. We are going to MC. Do I trust her and let her go to her friends house or do I stop her?
I love her to much to stop her from going out with her friends. She is home with our kids all day and she baby sits for other people. It's not like she is staying out all night or coming home at 4am. She is home by 11 or 12pm and I know who she's with.
Should I stop her from going out?
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Hi colinm,
I'm pretty new here too, but I'll tell you what I have learned from this site and the discussion boards. I think you should let her go out, but maybe talk to her and see if you can cut down the amount of time she goes out. I let my H go out with his friends but he has to tell me what he's doing and also be back by a certain agreed time. She needs to build your trust again. You could also call her friends to check up on her, since she needs to account for her time. I know it's hard, I always worry about what he's doing and it's normal for a BS...but you have to be strong right now. Is she willing to account for her time and try to build up trust again? How long has it been since NC?
"Nobody said it was easy, but no one ever said it would be this hard" -Coldplay
Take care...fumbling
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