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My mil has hurt me over the years in countless ways. But the last was when my husband had the A. She had the ow over to her home with husband for dinner, had the woman there for 3 day AFTER my husband ended the affair (he ended it over the phone, she came 400 miles so he would tell her in person), told everyone that she prefered the ow over me, snubbed me, and was very reluctant to support husband to save his marriage. I can't stand being around her. What can I do. Husband has told her how I feel, she just says, "we always have to worry about poor wife, I am tired of it"
This is the day the Lord hath made, let us rejoice in it.
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I am so sorry your mil has treated you so poorly. IMHO your sweetest revenge would come from taking the high road and treating her like an absolute queen. If you went out of your way to be especially kind and accomodating to her it would probably just truly get her goat. But what could she say? "Oh that littleone61, she must be horrible because she treats me so well." <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" />
Me = FBS age 51 FWH = age 51 M 25 years, 2 children 16 and 20 D-Day 5/19/05 Recovered and happy
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