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I will track her down if I can.Nothing would surprise me at this point. My ww is behaving in a much more humble manner tonight.HMMMM. Could she be thinking damn, my husband was right all along.I told her several times this scumbag was married.
I ate a good meal for the first time in 2 months. As i said I feel so relieved. Even if my ww leaves me for om I know I will be better off now and truly have no regrets about my efforts, character and integrity thoughout all of this mess.
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Wow kdh... good work on the exposure!!!
Stay strong.
~A
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Wow that didn't last long. I found more emails from ww to om this am. It just make me sick.Freinds that know this scum are telling ww that she is pissing her life away. she just doesn't get it.Wow how can someone crate such a realistic alternative reality. I just think it's shear stupidity. Nothing I do, Plan A, planB works. ****** it, ****** them, they will find the pit of ****** together. I'm sorry but I give up.I don't give up on me , but ****** this ******. I have done all I can. I can't waste anymore time on these idiots.Life is to short. Costa Rica, here I come. See ya.
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Hold your horses there, kdh! Nothing has had a chance to work yet, you just started. Don't even think of giving up yet. Try and find the wife, ok?
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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KDH,
Have you spoken to your lawyer about any legal issues with Plan B? If not do so. I think it is getting very near time for plan B to occur. She is wobbling on the fence and plan b will push her over into OM's arms. BUT...OM may not be so ready to deal with her full time. Her friends and family aren't so ready to deal, and she will be left with only her thoughts for awhile.
I am not sure you are ready yet for Plan B, but it takes some preparation and NOW is the time to prepare. So start getting ready. The peace will do you good, and will preserve the love you will need for when she comes back, and I think I see the signs that this will happen.
You have done well, prepare for the next step in saving your marriage.
God Bless,
JL
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Yeah, and it won't as long as my dumb [censored] ww thinks she is in love with a predator.She is looking for an apartment as am I. I can't pay the mortgage alone (CA, way too high). i am just being realistic here. I am not going to end up moving back in with this loser down the road. Why, I can rebuild a better life for myself and not have to worry about this happening 5 years from now when we have kids or something. my friend went through this same crap 10 years ago and now he has a great girlfriend, house, the whole 9 and is happy. If he can do it I certainly can. I am not being defined by my love for this wayward idiot anymore.
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"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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