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In my "plan" I laid out for my H, I said I would write the OM a letter asking for NC. I know I have seen places on the forum to help with writing one, but I searched and I couldn't find anything. Any one know where I can look?
Me, the WS, 25
My H, the BS, 25
Married Sept 2003
Served with D papers Aug 2005, but still hoping to make it work
History, despite its wrenching pain, cannot be unlived, but if faced with courage, need not be lived again.
--Maya Angelou
Proud of the woman that I have become, not the events that made me become that woman.
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Hi Cinny, You can find examples here
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Dorry, thanks for the help. I am going to e-mail my H what I composed (or rather, what I borrowed from everyone else). As a FWW, if you can think of anything else that I should add, please let me know. Here is what I wrote...
(OM),
I wanted you to know that out of respect and love for my husband, I have come to realize that I must never see you or talk to you again. My relationship with you was a selfish and inconsiderate indulgence that my husband did not deserve. While I cannot completely repay Chris for the pain that I have caused him, I want to do my best to become the wife he has been missing and the wife that he so greatly deserves. I know that marital reconciliation with my husband is the right thing to do. I care a great deal about him and would not want to do anything to risk his happiness. I want things to work out with him so that we can have a family and realize all of our dreams together. I will not make any further contact with you and I do not want you to make any further contact with me. Please respect my desire to end our relationship.
Sincerely,
Alyson
Me, the WS, 25
My H, the BS, 25
Married Sept 2003
Served with D papers Aug 2005, but still hoping to make it work
History, despite its wrenching pain, cannot be unlived, but if faced with courage, need not be lived again.
--Maya Angelou
Proud of the woman that I have become, not the events that made me become that woman.
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