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In one of the responses Low asked me if I had reviewed SAA...I have read most everything on this site several times but don't recall SAA. Am I missing something...also Low advises stopping the I Love you and relationship talk I can do that although it won't be easy. My big Question is how do I set boundries with out pushing her away further and what should they be. Ho do I let her know how this affair is affecting me and the family with out causing more problems. Do I tell her outright that if she chooses to continue the affair I will not be around forever (what do I say and how do I say it correctly"?
I want to do this right there is so much on the line here...please help me make this a good plan A.
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thank you...yes I have read it and will review it again. Sorry for the ignorance. Hard to think lately.
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I understand.
Neediness and clinginess are really unattractive in man. Your wife needs to see you being strong and standing up for your family. Everyone here knows it's hard to do, but you need to work on trying to come across that way even if you're dying inside.
Mortarman and others have been through this and would be in a better position to offer advice than myself. It's just my opinion that a man who can appear strong in the face of adversity is attractive to a woman. And Plan A is about about making you and your marriage attractive to your wife.
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