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I need some advice.

I saw an add on TV for "OXFORD, Maine – Sick tricks, big air and back flips galore will highlight the return of the FreestyleMX.com Tour to Oxford Plains Speedway"

If you knew my BIL you would understand why seeing this says 'OH MY, BIL would LOVE this'
He is 15 and seriously into dirt bikes. He owns one himself and thinks this type of thing is very cool. He used to spend a lot of time with WH and I. He came to VA to visit when we lived there, etc. He always comments on how he wishes OW would go to jail, in Texas...so things could be liked they used to be. Anyhow.....I have been spending time with him on the 4-wheeler and such since WH hasn't been around much.

Anyhow, I would love to call him and ask if he would enjoy going, that I would take him. BUT, I have not spoken to MIL or BIL or WH or anyone since he got arrested Thursday night. I am quite sure that MIL bailed him out, so I have this 'evil person' label in thier mind. Not BIL I am sure, but MIL. BIL knows MIL is a CA BIG TIME, and also quite paranoid. Anyhow....I would love to take him, I am pretty sure he would like to go. However, it might not go over well with MIL...

Should I even ask?

Danielle


H met OW- 8/3/04 while I was on vacation.
False Recovery- 9/18/04, 10/26/04, 5/11/05
H said he wants a DV and marry OW 11/7/04
Divorce final 10/27/05
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He is still the kid's uncle, in my book. But others might have ideas about how to do it without tripping wires.


"Virtue -- even attempted virtue -- brings light; indulgence brings fog." -- C.S. Lewis
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