Of the A? I have a pile of phone records (atleast 2 and a half months worth) and emails they sent each other.

When do I dispose of them, or should I ever?

I don't think it is time yet, been back together for a little over 2 months. I feel there is n/c now.

Only thing is that there is a situation where we may be bumping into the ow and her h in the future. I have not yet experienced how she will act if this happens. She has been warned that ANY contact or any inappropriate behavior will result in me showing her H everything. I did not tell him because he had just returned from Iraq and we started right away mending our M day after Dday. I felt if I told her H after that it would be only for revenge on my part. Sort of a weird situation to explain it all.

Anyways, it is very likey we will all run into each other on occassion. I feel that is my only defense against her if I have to use it.

Is it wrong to hang on to this evidence?

Keep it in my opinion, doesn't mean you have to look at it ever again.

I'd keep it, and I have, and will keep the evidence.

My WWXW has already tried to re-write our breakup (without success) and a gentle nudge from me is keeping her mouth shut, she knows I have it all.