I usually post on the Preg/Child forum ...
anyone interested can read the latest in I had a converstation with OW

Anyway, xH agreed to NC letter to OW ...
Please feel free to make suggestions, comments, critiques ...

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OW,

I am sending this letter to confirm for you that I have reconciled with Mily.

To protect her I decided to break of all contact with you. This decision - not to contact you or interact with you in any other way than as required in public for OC's sakes - is permanent and not subject to change.

I ask that you respect my decision, and never seek to contact me, or interact with me other than required to maintain a polite relationship for OC. I will refuse all efforts to initiate any contact and I will notify Mily of any contact between us.

I do love OC and want to have a relationship with him. Any future issues like CS and visitation schedule will be handled through my attorney. Any emergency issue related to OC, please contact Mily and leave a message with her.

Sincerely,

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Thanks!

me-34
xH-38
DD 10/03
D-day 11/03 (cellphone)
Talked-Day 01/04
H left-02/04
Divorce-05/04
xH left -false recovery 1 week- 08/04 -told about OC
OC-07/04
xH left -false recovery 6 weeks- 12/01/04
12/02/04 DESTRUCTION OF MILY MUST END
1/17/05 - Started dating
11/05 - CS and visitation established at Court
02/28/06 - xH moves back after 2 yrs!
10/16/07 - asked xH to leave - he's still in a relationship with OW