The world is in a state of flux, so are our lives, bodies and minds. Nothing exists as it was a moment ago. Even a diamond changes because of the movement of it’s atomic structure. This is just the nature of things. Reality only exists in the moment and events that happened in the past are no more part of reality then thoughts of the future.

We torture ourselves with the past and the future and we are blind to reality. We consume our thoughts and dreams with what was and of what things could be instead of appreciating what is happening now. We can try and plan our lives but could die tomorrow. This is just how things are and no amount of thought is going to change that.

A BS is not the same person, or being that they were before the A. Because of flux they have changed. The cells in their body have been replaced with new cells, hair has grown and thoughts have changed. Because of the A their mind thinks differently then it did before the A. If we as BS’s realize that it is impossible to change the past and impossible to predict the future maybe we can find peace with what we have. I am sure if some of us looked around and observed reality we would see all the good we have around us. We have jobs, food, children, family, shelter, but cannot see that because we focus on the unchangeable past. If we paid attention to what was real, what is in the now maybe we could find some peace in knowing the A is not part of who we are anymore.


Wow..this recovery thing sucks. Did you know that I feel murdering someone is more humane then cheating on them? The dead don't think about being killed...the BS thinks about the A everyday