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My w/s and I are in our 9th day of recovery, and could use prayers for this bumpy road we are on. I, especially need prayers for strength to be able to set the proper boundries and remain stedfast in the ones I have already set out. My husband is complaining bitterly about the restrictions of no contact. He says I have too many rules and I am trying to analyze him all the time. He is also bitterly upset about the fact that under the no contact, he is unable to visit his mother at assisted living except when the o/w (who happens to be the activities director) is gone for the day. I don't feel paticularly strong now, and I need the strength that only Jesus can provide, so I can do what must be done to preserve my marriage. Please pray that I can learn to use my voice and not be the doormat for my w/h.
Thank you,
K.D's Heartbreak
In the end, I have nothing to lose but everything to gain, by trying to save my marriage.
Me, betrayed wife 46
Former Wandering Husband, 51 E/A 2005
28 years of marriage
DD 26, DS 24
O/W aka, Rat 29, A-D Assisted Living
Discovery 8-20-05 Recovery ongoing.
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All of you are in my prayers. No one should have to go through this pain. I have felt the strength of God guiding me through the past year and 1/2. There's no way i could have survived without Him. I ask for continued strength to accept my situation and learn to live a new life. Thanks be to God.
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Your in my prayers, please pray for my FWW, so she can get the love, peace and happiness that a marriage blessed by our Lord can bring. I also need the strenght to carry on.
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