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#1464261 08/30/05 03:20 PM
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Recently I was unfaithful to my partner of almost 3 years. Which I deeply regret and we are working our way through that and believe that our relationship will be stronger and better than before. In the ensueing conversations I asked if she had ever cheated...her response was no. Further talks lead to her revealing that after her first husbamd left her she had an affair with her sisters husband. She believes this is not cheating for her but only for him. What do you think? If you aren't in a relationship and knowingly have an affair with someone you clearly know is involved with someone else are you cheating? or only the other person? And her telling me was the first time she ever revealed that to anyone and it occurred 25 yrs ago.
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You cheat on someone. If she didn't have an attachment at the time, she was not cheating. He, however, was.

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She slept with her sister's husband - she betrayed her SISTER. Blood is thicker than water - I'd say she cheated, if not on her husband, then her sister.


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Will her sister feel that she cheated on her?

YES! IT IS CHEATING!!


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I have found a NEW REASON!!!!
A Treasure!!

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