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How to convince WW to go to MC?
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I'm relatively new, and in that 'just-found-out' stage and I need to find a way, hopefully amidst plan A, to get my WW to come with meto MC. She is balking at the idea, and thinks wholeheartedly that it would come to absolutely no fruition.

She hasn't totally given up on our marriage, but "just wants time," and needs to "sort things out," She hasn't made up her mind whether or not she wants to leave though I told her I want to make it work and help fulfill her ENs.

How can I get through to her that it is far better to save our M than to walk away from it.
Re: How to convince WW to go to MC?
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Is she in an affair? Why exactly do you want to get her in MC so badly? What do you hope to acheive?

"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt

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Re: How to convince WW to go to MC?
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First, welcome! Others with more experience will be along soon so sit tight and read up a bit. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

In the meantime, If your WW is still seing the OM don't bother wasting the time or money on MC. Even the MC will tell you that, or at least mine did.

BS: 37 (me)
WH: 35
D-Day: 6/10/05
Plan A'd from a distance - WH moved out
Plan B started: 10/04/05
Plan B fell apart: 10/14/05
Back on the Plan B pony 10/23/05
Baby stepping in recovery since 11/06/05

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