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Even though I just started PlanB ... I was just wondering is there an average time for it start taking effect on the WS?
I know its not an overnight thing but how long would you wait before you decide its not working?
I understand about plan b being for the BS to get away from the madness and make life better for themselves... And I am doing that .
Just curious about the other side of it...
Last edited by hurtinginokla; 09/01/05 05:07 PM.
BS (Me)- 47 WH - 46
Married- 24 yrs
3 children 15,19,22
2 grandsons
D-Day- June17, 2005 while I was 1400 miles away
WH living with OW since July 05
WH filed divorce papers Dec. 22, 05
Divorced granted June 28, 06
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I think Dr H says up to 2 years before you start divorce.
IMO, if it doesn't change within 90 days I would say the % is very low of things working out.
Good Luck, I'm going to Plan B soon.
Stay Dark no matter what or it will be the biggest waste of time. Not doing you nor your spouse any good.
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you got that right TA ..... Mine has been broken twice in the first week .... Thanks to my kid and the last time me not locking the doors ....
But no more will it happen ....
BS (Me)- 47 WH - 46
Married- 24 yrs
3 children 15,19,22
2 grandsons
D-Day- June17, 2005 while I was 1400 miles away
WH living with OW since July 05
WH filed divorce papers Dec. 22, 05
Divorced granted June 28, 06
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Plan B is in effect when YOU feel peace. When YOU are bettering your life, making financial plans and stability for your family, making a schedule for your children and see calmness in your life. It takes different times for different people.
My WHs affair started in August of 04, and just this month can I truly say I am in Plan B for the right reasons and it feels good.
Danielle
H met OW- 8/3/04 while I was on vacation.
False Recovery- 9/18/04, 10/26/04, 5/11/05
H said he wants a DV and marry OW 11/7/04
Divorce final 10/27/05
Son-5yr Daughter-2 1/2yr
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