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Ok just started plan B. Next Friday my 16 year old son has a game that is either in or very near the OM's town which is a couple of hours from our town. Do I tell him don't tell your mother about the game or do I just not go to avoid any possible contact with WW and or OM? Going to my sons football game have always been very important to me.
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My answer would be option 3) neither.
I would go and enjoy your sons football game. It is important to you, and I am sure it is important to your son.
If your WW happens to go to the game, don't participate in communication with her. Sit on the bench (or wherever you sit) and be there for your son. If your WW attempts to talk to you, tell her that you are not interested in communication at this time.
Don't stop supporting your son, I am sure he needs you right now.
Danielle
H met OW- 8/3/04 while I was on vacation.
False Recovery- 9/18/04, 10/26/04, 5/11/05
H said he wants a DV and marry OW 11/7/04
Divorce final 10/27/05
Son-5yr Daughter-2 1/2yr
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Thank you DanigirlinVA. I almost want to tell him I am not going, show up and if OM is there beat him to a bloody pulp. Has anyone seen what a Bloody Pulp looks like? You say no? I will show you when I am done. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> j/k
What about the no contact. Would that be considered contact if we see each other?
Lost and Confused
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I feel for you. My D-day was during my son's senior football season last year. His stupid dad preferred to spend the weekend with OW rather than go to his last regular season game. We went to games until the State quarterfinals.
It's very possible to be in the same stadium and be as far apart as possible. My WH is living proof of it. When my son's team lost their last game, his dad disappeared immediately afterwards. I was left to comfort my son, both of us crying buckets, as he walked off the field for the last time.
These idiot WS, they don't have a clue about how they affect everybody.
Go to the game. Celebrate your son. Be there for him.
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Me: BS
XCH: Clueless
2-DS: Bigger than me
1-DD: Now also bigger than me!
5/6: Personally served CH with divorce papers
6/6: CH F? wants to time to see if M can be saved
7/6: FCH reenters our lives to work on marriage but secretly signs papers to start divorce...what's that about?
Mediation set for November
Final dissolution in January 2007.
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